Episode 110: Is It Okay to Replace Porn with Images of My Spouse? with L&C

Chelsea and Layton have one of their most nuanced conversations yet — tackling a question that many couples quietly wrestle with:

“Is it okay to replace pornography with images or videos of my spouse?”

This episode dives deep into the gray areas of sexuality, desire, and healing — exploring where connection becomes consumption, and how couples can pursue intimacy that’s rooted in love, honesty, and holiness.

Chelsea and Layton share openly from their own journey through betrayal, healing, and rebuilding trust. Together, they unpack:

• The difference between lust and desire — and why motive matters

• How shame, rationalization, and avoidance can quietly sabotage intimacy

• Why true connection costs something — and how pictures and videos can bypass that cost

• The role of the Holy Spirit and discernment in navigating complex sexual questions

• What it looks like to pursue peace, wisdom, and mutual trust in your marriage